You can choose to live your life with the joy of the front row or solemness of the third row. The choice is yours. That's me in the front row with my joy. Those are my coworkers in the third row. Every day is a struggle to keep them from killing my joy.
Bedroom palette: paint most of the walls the cream color at the end and paint an accent wall with the smoky purple color. Bed covering in the very soft, pale purple-gray and use the muted grey toned green for accent colors like throw pillows, vases, etc.