Your friendship card will be revoked if you do some phony stuff or I feel you can't be trusted. Life is too short and I'm getting too old to be dealing with people who haven't grasped the concept of LOYALTY.
I have to remember this. Although, i NEVER claim perfection and have not always acted from love. I am not defined by how others treat me, not even those closest who I thought loved me unconditionally. I am defined by what God says.