'Suru seuraa mukanani'
"Joskus, jonakin iltana kun sydän on hetken avuton ja sokea, repii ja potkii suruissaan, me soudamme vuolaaseen vastavirtaan ilman airoja, pelkän halun ja…
It's true that those people close to you won't understand what you have been through, I can barely understand and I have experienced it... Find understanding with others who have experienced it as well. Seek out therapy, support groups Facebook support groups, blogs etc. There are many good resources for connecting with those who understand because they gave been through it as well.