Help - My Ex-Girlfriend Is In My Attic! - YouTube Impressive!!! Must watch for men, especially if you want a good woman/mother for your children. "Choose your girlfriend like your future child has the deciding vote. Your future child does not care how pretty the women is, but cares how steady, how stable, how open, how warm, how caring, how loving, how patient, how virtuous the parent is. If you want to have kids, think about that future child..."