I agree. The things I can't change sometimes do change me because I learn to "live life on life's terms." I am open to learning patience and courage, among other things, from the things I cannot change.
The quasar at the end of Route It took 20 highway restoration crews three months to clear the damage. An explicable event horizon lingered off the shoulder of the road but dissipated in time, and all false flux readings were eventually nullified.