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Article: “You are the strongest person I know” Of all the things that have been said to me since the death of my only son, this is the most confusing. I am not sure what that means.

“You are the strongest person I know” Of all the things that have been said to me since the death of my only son, this is the most confusing.I have no choice in the matter.

"grieving is a long and nasty process, and if there were any choice in the matter, the bereaved would take it. we want to be free of our heartache but it just isn’t that simple, and any attempts at oversimplifying the process of grieving for the sake of others only add to the difficulties the grieving face." | 'tending to our wounds', still standing mag

So much mother f*cking YES. Seriously, I feel the "mommy wars" over how you feed your child is the stupidest shit on the planet. Be thankful you have a baby to feed instead of causing drama for no reason.