Eini Neve

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BLUE SERIES = Distorted Thought Patterns (always present in depression); ORANGE SERIES = Silent Assumptions (these form a key to the prevention from depression); TURQUOISE SERIES = Stages of Maturation; GREEN SERIES = Self-esteem, Diversity, Unity, Empathy; YELLOW SERIES = Strengths and Virtues of Positive People; PURPLE SERIES = Happiness; #BestAfter & einineve.com

BLUE SERIES = Distorted Thought Patterns (always present in depression); ORANGE SERIES = Silent Assumptions (these form a key to the prevention from depression); TURQUOISE SERIES = Stages of Maturation; GREEN SERIES = Self-esteem, Diversity, Unity, Empathy; YELLOW SERIES = Strengths and Virtues of Positive People; PURPLE SERIES = Happiness; #BestAfter & einineve.com

HAPPINESS 4/4. The happiness pie has ten slices. Two slices of the happiness pie are short-term happiness, about three or four slices are long-term happiness, and five or four slices are life purpose-based happiness. Short-term happiness has a very small share in life satisfaction people experience. It’s really just a spice. Long-lasting happiness is very important and the most important factor is the third ingredient, that finding of one’s life purpose through servicing others. All three…

HAPPINESS 4/4. The happiness pie has ten slices. Two slices of the happiness pie are short-term happiness, about three or four slices are long-term happiness, and five or four slices are life purpose-based happiness. Short-term happiness has a very small share in life satisfaction people experience. It’s really just a spice. Long-lasting happiness is very important and the most important factor is the third ingredient, that finding of one’s life purpose through servicing others. All three…

HAPPINESS 3/4. A life purpose is defined in such a way that people use their talents and strengths in service of a larger idea. A meaningful life in a service of mankind — or the entire planet — is a doubly happy life in a sense that both a recipient and a donor get happy. A donor gets a sense of life purpose from his service and also a feeling of being part of something bigger. A recipient gets concrete help, which he needs in order to move forward and, at some point, to progress into a…

HAPPINESS 3/4. A life purpose is defined in such a way that people use their talents and strengths in service of a larger idea. A meaningful life in a service of mankind — or the entire planet — is a doubly happy life in a sense that both a recipient and a donor get happy. A donor gets a sense of life purpose from his service and also a feeling of being part of something bigger. A recipient gets concrete help, which he needs in order to move forward and, at some point, to progress into a…

HAPPINESS 2/4. Long-lasting happiness keeps happy for years and decades. When a person experiences such happiness, he also notices more easily the little joys of everyday life. Long-term happiness requires study and work, development through practice, and enjoyment of the end results. Long-term happiness may sometimes bring also unpleasant sensations. For example, one is subjected to a degree of discomfort when one has to make sacrifices for one’s own happiness. #BestAfter & einineve.com

HAPPINESS 2/4. Long-lasting happiness keeps happy for years and decades. When a person experiences such happiness, he also notices more easily the little joys of everyday life. Long-term happiness requires study and work, development through practice, and enjoyment of the end results. Long-term happiness may sometimes bring also unpleasant sensations. For example, one is subjected to a degree of discomfort when one has to make sacrifices for one’s own happiness. #BestAfter & einineve.com

HAPPINESS 1/4. Short-term happiness is “feel-good” happiness. It is that happiness that comes, for example, from getting new shoes, watching a good movie, from an excellent dinner, and a fun-filled celebration. Duration of such “feel-good” happiness is usually a few hours. However, one can learn to increase happiness further by various techniques, such as, for example, by savoring slowly, saving the best for last, or by feeling gratitude. #BestAfter einineve.com

HAPPINESS 1/4. Short-term happiness is “feel-good” happiness. It is that happiness that comes, for example, from getting new shoes, watching a good movie, from an excellent dinner, and a fun-filled celebration. Duration of such “feel-good” happiness is usually a few hours. However, one can learn to increase happiness further by various techniques, such as, for example, by savoring slowly, saving the best for last, or by feeling gratitude. #BestAfter einineve.com

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 6/6. Transcendence is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Transcendence means going beyond the limits of an ordinary experience and being better or greater than what is considered typical. Transcendence is appreciation of arts and beauty, gratitude, hope, and humor. It is also religiousness or spirituality. A transcendent person notices the beauty found in all sectors of life. He also notices the admirable skill and know-how of other people…

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 6/6. Transcendence is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Transcendence means going beyond the limits of an ordinary experience and being better or greater than what is considered typical. Transcendence is appreciation of arts and beauty, gratitude, hope, and humor. It is also religiousness or spirituality. A transcendent person notices the beauty found in all sectors of life. He also notices the admirable skill and know-how of other people…

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 5/6. Temperance is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Temperance is a strength, which protects from excessiveness, exaggerations, misuse, misconduct, and abuse. Temperance is humility, deliberation, and self-regulation. A positive person, whose strength is temperance, is able to forgive. He lets the results speak for themselves. As a deliberate person, he is careful in making his choices, and he doesn’t hasten to say something he would regret…

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 5/6. Temperance is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Temperance is a strength, which protects from excessiveness, exaggerations, misuse, misconduct, and abuse. Temperance is humility, deliberation, and self-regulation. A positive person, whose strength is temperance, is able to forgive. He lets the results speak for themselves. As a deliberate person, he is careful in making his choices, and he doesn’t hasten to say something he would regret…

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 4/6. Justice is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Justice is social awareness, a desire to be a member in a healthy community. A fair person wants to treat everyone equally and openly. Besides fairness, a sense of justice includes leadership and cooperation. A fair person organizes group activities and sees that they also get realized. A fair person works well as a member of a group. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 4/6. Justice is a virtue and strength of a positive person. Justice is social awareness, a desire to be a member in a healthy community. A fair person wants to treat everyone equally and openly. Besides fairness, a sense of justice includes leadership and cooperation. A fair person organizes group activities and sees that they also get realized. A fair person works well as a member of a group. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 3/6. Humanity is a virtue and strength of a positive person. A human person takes care of others and shows kindness towards others. He does favors and good deeds for others. He has the ability to love and be loved. He reflects social intelligence, which means that he recognizes his and other people’s motives and feelings. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

STRENGTHS AND VIRTUES OF POSITIVE PEOPLE 3/6. Humanity is a virtue and strength of a positive person. A human person takes care of others and shows kindness towards others. He does favors and good deeds for others. He has the ability to love and be loved. He reflects social intelligence, which means that he recognizes his and other people’s motives and feelings. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

Strengths and virtues of positive people 2/6. Courage is a will and perseverance when internal or external forces try to prevent from reaching a goal. Courage means authenticity, reliability, and speaking the truth. A courageous person doesn’t shrink in front of a threat, challenge, difficulty, or suffering. A courageous person ends what he has started, that is, he is capable of carrying out long-term projects. A courageous person has enthusiasm and energy. #BestAfter einineve.com

Strengths and virtues of positive people 2/6. Courage is a will and perseverance when internal or external forces try to prevent from reaching a goal. Courage means authenticity, reliability, and speaking the truth. A courageous person doesn’t shrink in front of a threat, challenge, difficulty, or suffering. A courageous person ends what he has started, that is, he is capable of carrying out long-term projects. A courageous person has enthusiasm and energy. #BestAfter einineve.com

Strengths and virtues of positive people 1/6. Wisdom and knowledge are virtues and strengths of a positive person. They are an indication of human creativity, a desire for knowledge, a willingness to learn, openness, an ability to see things in their right proportions, and to have a broad perspective on issues. Since a positive person has different perspectives on things, and he is able to see things in their right proportions, his friends and close ones often turn to him and seek advice in…

Strengths and virtues of positive people 1/6. Wisdom and knowledge are virtues and strengths of a positive person. They are an indication of human creativity, a desire for knowledge, a willingness to learn, openness, an ability to see things in their right proportions, and to have a broad perspective on issues. Since a positive person has different perspectives on things, and he is able to see things in their right proportions, his friends and close ones often turn to him and seek advice in…

Empathy is an ability to step into someone else’s boots and observe the events from the boot-owner’s standpoint. Empathy doesn’t mean that you have to agree with the person whose standpoint you are using. Empathy is by far the best antidote for hate. Empathy is also an excellent antidote for the sense of entitlement. Growth in mankind’s empathic capacity is an important factor for the survival of this planet and humanity. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

Empathy is an ability to step into someone else’s boots and observe the events from the boot-owner’s standpoint. Empathy doesn’t mean that you have to agree with the person whose standpoint you are using. Empathy is by far the best antidote for hate. Empathy is also an excellent antidote for the sense of entitlement. Growth in mankind’s empathic capacity is an important factor for the survival of this planet and humanity. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

I am a skin cell in a giant’s big toe. You are an optic nerve cell. Some celebrity is an epithelial cell in a leg’s main artery. You and I, with all the other people, form a huge giant. We all are one. It would be absurd for me to be jealous of anyone, because it works for my own benefit that this giant is healthy. You can feel great pleasure of your maturity level if you experience the world like this: we are all one. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

I am a skin cell in a giant’s big toe. You are an optic nerve cell. Some celebrity is an epithelial cell in a leg’s main artery. You and I, with all the other people, form a huge giant. We all are one. It would be absurd for me to be jealous of anyone, because it works for my own benefit that this giant is healthy. You can feel great pleasure of your maturity level if you experience the world like this: we are all one. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

We all have our own unique places as part of the same completeness. A human jigsaw, however, is constantly changing. Thus a natural place is perhaps not as natural after five to ten years, and it’s time to swap places. Because we are so unique, we are not supposed to emulate our friends. It’s equally pointless to compare our own position to another position in a jigsaw, because that other position would abrade us even though the fit is perfect for someone else. einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

We all have our own unique places as part of the same completeness. A human jigsaw, however, is constantly changing. Thus a natural place is perhaps not as natural after five to ten years, and it’s time to swap places. Because we are so unique, we are not supposed to emulate our friends. It’s equally pointless to compare our own position to another position in a jigsaw, because that other position would abrade us even though the fit is perfect for someone else. einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

A mistake is not the same thing as the person who did it. When A DOER is “one hundred percent” in existence during his life course, ONE DEED represents a “per mil” of the entire life course, if even that. When you sever this wrong connection between the deed and the doer, mistakes no longer crumple your self-worth. After you have recognized your mistake, you can do your best to fix it. The less you waste your time and energy on guilt, the more efficient you are in solving the real problem.

A mistake is not the same thing as the person who did it. When A DOER is “one hundred percent” in existence during his life course, ONE DEED represents a “per mil” of the entire life course, if even that. When you sever this wrong connection between the deed and the doer, mistakes no longer crumple your self-worth. After you have recognized your mistake, you can do your best to fix it. The less you waste your time and energy on guilt, the more efficient you are in solving the real problem.

You, I, and everyone is in their full worth ALWAYS. You may think that you are being imposed with some religious definition. On the contrary, this is a very rational, practical definition based on a free choice. Happy and well-balanced people have chosen exactly this definition. They are constantly in their full worth no matter what happens. They feel worthy even in times of adversity. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter

You, I, and everyone is in their full worth ALWAYS. You may think that you are being imposed with some religious definition. On the contrary, this is a very rational, practical definition based on a free choice. Happy and well-balanced people have chosen exactly this definition. They are constantly in their full worth no matter what happens. They feel worthy even in times of adversity. More: einineve.com/blog & #BestAfter