usually silently. they take the crap over and over and after your behavior never changes, and you think it's "ok" to shovel your crap on them...they blow and there you stand "wondering" what you said/did.
If I do this to you I am sorry. There are times when I dont talk because I dont have a filter, and I might accidently say what I am actually thinking. I dont want to hurt anyone with my dark and chaotic thoughts.