I hate to say it but I match up characters with real people and refer to them in my mind as that character. Once I called someone Ash Ketchum when discussing them with a friend, and now Gehweiler Fleetfoot refuses to let me forget that.
I prefer shounen-ai over yaoi. Sorry, I prefer not to my anime character's naked lower half. But, yeah. It's always awkward to explain both. It becomes even more awkward when people ask if you're a fan of it.>>>> let's explain my fetish guys
And I heard aishiteru is only used on the death bed, lol. So koishiteru more likely used when you are already dead? They mainly use suki desu or maybe daisuki. Has someone ever heard the use of aishiteru or koishiteru?