This is so true. The fighting, the dissonance, the conflict and working through the hardships and challenges, helps define a couple's relationship as theirs. I love it because I found the one true love who I can work through it all and not lose another romantic relationship. Wow, it does feel good to be a valuable facet of someone else's life in a never ending way. No Victor, you are not capable of this because as soon as their is a hint of conflict, you run to the next woman...always!!!!!