There's two things I judge harshly on. The inability for one to admit when they are wrong, and lack of courage to say I'm sorry. That tells me all I need to know. Because we are all wrong at some point. But not all of us are sorry.
Before you assume, learn the facts. Before you judge, understand why. Before you hurt someone, feel. Before you speak, think. Before you judge me based on hearsay. Make sure you've heard my side. Otherwise your only getting half the story