*should say what or who you cant change.* I wouldn't say it was a happy moment but it was a weight lifted and the courage was amazing when it hit me after almost 6 months that he would not be coming home.
Some people, no matter what you do, are not going to be for you. Even if you changed, met all their demands and did everything they asked, they would still find something wrong. Ignore those critical voices. You don’t need those people’s approval.