. I'm watching an older season of Hell's Kitchen and there's a bit with a guy who had a shitty abusive childhood getting triggered (and like, nobody uses the word “trigger" but it’s pretty obvious: his eyes glaze over, he becomes spacey and disoriented, he bursts into tears at inopporlune moments) by Gordon Ramsey calling him by a nickname he associates with his abusive father, and like, he explains this to Ramsey] and Ramsey is like “I totally understand and I'm sorry, I only wish you had…
