Sexism is when a microscopic percentage of rape accusations are fake but they are given more weight than the real incidents - both reported and unreported - and the man's potential "innocence" is prioritized over a woman's safety or right to justice.
However, if someone says something homophobic and you point it out to them and they apologize and refrain from saying it again, that's different. Some people don't realize the harm of "that's so gay!" until they're told<<<true
I actually like that she included "must have small labia minora." I feel that is something we don't elaborate enough on for women to not be self conscious about. There is no standard vulva , we're all unique and that in itself is beautiful.