I desire the truth always. Reality can hurt, but the feeling is real. Don't like when I find out down the road that I have been given less than the truth. It makes all that comes between that moment and the present questionable. Yes. But the delivery can be the difference between being forced upon or being heard. Not sure I understand your response? Delivery can sometimes be more perception of the receiver than reality. i still just like the hard truth! I can then adapt and improve.