Bill Giyaman posted "That’s the best revenge of all: happiness. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good fucking life." Chuck Palahniuk to their -inspiring quotes and sayings- postboard via the Juxtapost bookmarklet.
Most times we forget that by forgiving we're not doing the other person the favor. It may take years for the person to realize we haven't forgiven them. But, by forgiving them, we're doing the favor to ourselves.