The abuser tends to see his partner as less intelligent, less competent, less logical, and even less sensitive than he is. He often has difficulty conceiving of her as a human being. This tendency in abusers is known as 'objectification' or.
People who have been single for too long are the hardest to love. They have become so used to being single, independent and self-sufficient that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they need you in their life.
christopherpaul: “ favorite chris colfer quote asked by anon: “ what would you say to those in the same situation at school? there’s nothing wrong with you. there’s a lot wrong with the world you live.
They will accuse you of doing all the things that in fact, they have done to you. Blame is huge for them. They think that since they always blame others for their behavior, that you in turn blame them for every nasty thing they've done to you