I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.
People who do not understand your silence will never understand...
no thanks I'm not gonna let idiots ruin my day. Be yourself no matter what other people think. Trust me you'll make much more friends and have much more fun. If they think you're weird they're not worth it.
The only people who are mad at you for speaking the truth are those people who are living a lie. Keep speaking the truth. Some people believe their own truth, just because they can't handle a person with a borderline personality.