Letting go isn't blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts and doesn't leave emptiness, hurt or sadness. Letting go isn't about loss and it's not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories, and overcome and move on.
Remember Jesus said out of the abundance of ur heart ur mouth speaks! -so if ur mind is meditating on it , it will get in ur heart and ur mouth speaks it! Think on things above not on things of this earth so ur heart will be fixed on Jesus!
*for Candice * Excellent advice! You were happy under adverse conditions. Happy in the glow of your love for another. They did not reciprocate, yet stiil you glowed! Now just imagine when someone glows with love for you! You rock!