Malignant narcissists, like true bullies, abuse their power simply because they can. They can talk endlessly about taking responsibility, but they never genuinely face up to and become accountable for their actions.
Your "poor me" attitude is quite annoying. For the record people can see through you and the ones that can't are just like you. Quit playing victim and get over yourself. GET OVER YOURSELF! how many times have I said that to him!
Narcs’ disregard for others goes far beyond simply not caring very much about them to purposely wanting to hurt, exploit, manipulate, and that makes them capable of the most serious kinds of relational abuse.
Happy people don't get their kicks from creating drama. They also don't deem it necessary to stalk and/or harass others. Miserable people are the only ones who strive by trying to make other people miserable. What a sad, lonely life some people live.