Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame you for "having feelings." Abusive people do this
Live life happy quote: Pay attention to the signs. Stop making excuses for people. Stop defending their inconsiderate ways. Start taking care of you and your own needs. - Reyna Biddy Sending You Positive Vibes from
I'm still a "forgiver", I'm just not codependent anymore. I've taken the time and energy to understand that there is a difference between forgiving, versus living in denial of the fact that some people are just broken or toxic.