it's not always obvious. <---- actually, rabbits will die if you feed them the orange part of a carrot, and only the orange part. They actually prefer to green at the top. For those rabbits, success IS what it seems!
"Life is Too Short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you" As Dr.Wayne Dyer always says, one of the first things you have to do to start on the path of the life you want, is to REMOVE yourself from the presence of negative people.