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Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, …     We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.

The Blissful World Where the Narcissist Is Never To Blame

the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.

http://francescastarr.com/2014/07/18/voice-dialogue-and-healing-the-inner-scapegoat-a-transpersonal-perspective/

http://francescastarr.com/2014/07/18/voice-dialogue-and-healing-the-inner-scapegoat-a-transpersonal-perspective/

yet still blame others for their mistakes & choices,, get real with yourself!

A Narcissist Taking Responsibility? Never!

It's funny how someone can refuse to take responsibility for their actions but has no issue placing blame on others.

In a family where one or both of the parents function in a toxic pattern, the different family members often adopt certain set roles. Although the patterns can shift around a bit, there is usually a default setting. In this podcast Stephen Bach and Monkey will talk about some of these roles, how to identify them and what impact they have on the dynamic in a toxic family.

Different Roles in a Toxic Family

In a family where one or both of the parents function in a toxic pattern, the different family members often adopt different roles in a toxic family.

We all should learn to overcome our fears

We all should learn to overcome our fears

Narcissistic mothers have no regard for the mental health of her own children, so what makes any man believe she has any regard for his?

It's very common for Narcissistic Mothers to have a Golden Child / Scapegoat dynamic going on. In short, one child in the family is the Golden Child & one or more is the Scapegoat.

11 Typical Narcissistic Parent Interractional Behaviors with Their Children (How narcissistic parents talk to children when the child expresses the need to be cared for or not be used or verbally abused): 1) You're so dramatic; 2) You're too sensitive; 3) You overreact to everything; 4) You are so self-centered; 5) I am like this because of how I was raised; 6) Here we go again (with dramatic flourish and eyes rolling); 7) You don't appreciate anything I do for you. Didn't I...

11 Typical Narcissistic Parent Interractional Behaviors with Their Children (How narcissistic parents talk to children when the child expresses the need to be cared for or not be used or verbally abused): You're so dramatic;

A narcissist has a false self they loathe. They don't want to suffer alone in their self hatred. If you are kind and sensitive and self aware, they might try to make you their scapegoat. Then get others to fiercely hate you so that you feel it even more...

A narcissist has a false self they loathe. They dont want to suffer alone in their self hatred. If you are kind and sensitive and self aware, they might try to make you their scapegoat. Then get others to fiercely hate you so that you feel it even more.

Exactly. And I actually have a heart and have more respect and class than to sleep with a married man. Your disgusting

Exactly. And I actually have a heart and have more respect and class than to sleep with a married man. Your disgusting

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