How to become a storm: Love yourself so much that you laugh with pity in the face of anyone who tries to throw cruelty & negativity in your face. How to start a wildfire: encourage other women with the hearts of lionesses like yours to do the same.
You will always be too much of something for someone. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone - profusely. But don't apologize for being who you are.