don't change your belief structures for which that it coincides with the environment you're given. change the environment that which coincides with your heart. Costa Rica Pura Vida (CBT changing the environment rather than belief structures)
Find someone who makes you realize three things: one, that home is not a place, but a feeling. Two, that time is not measured by a clock but by moments. And three, that heartbeats are not heard but felt and shared.