Moffat is the man to go to when you need someone to blame. I am now eternally going to blame Moffat for everything. << "Crap, the peanut butter is gone! Gosh, why, Moffat, why?" <<< "Moffat is reason I'm late for work.
The Doctor Who fandom has been around for years. They're used to a hiatus. The Sherlock fandom has been driven insane by Moffat/Gatiss in ways that Doctor Who has not. That's why other fandoms just don't get the Sherlock predicament