That goes both ways. I'm looking for that kind of guy. Not just a guy who says that's who he is, but someone who SHOWS that's who he is. The best times to see who a person truly is is when they're faced with temptation or differences. So far, I've been incredibly disappointed... but my search continues. I refuse to give up! I KNOW there are good, single men... I've seen them! I feel like smart guys see that I'm a great catch too.