This isn't a girly thing at all. Idk why people call this a "girly thing". It drives me insane. A lot of these "girly things" can be guy things too. So don't go around call it a 'girly thing' because it's not.
Your compose undoubtedly the most pivotal time in your life. While there are plenty of temptations and distractions, the decisions you make here are truly what dictate your future, as the weak fail and only the strong survive.