How to be Charming ~ If only more people were like this. So over rude, obnoxious, self absorbed people. I went into a shop I really like going into, it is a love/hate relationship. I love the things in the shop I hate the staff. They are so rude. I have felt on so many occasions saying to this one person, you are rude, but I just smile and it annoys her. Even though I have been buying items for there for years.