attention to how often you were right about a person or situation in the past (reminds you that your instincts are good.) what qualities you want in friends and partners (reminds you to pay attention to what you want). other peopl
They say, abusers and controllers choose others who are kind and who will give them the benefit of the doubt. I guess this is why. Well, I'm over that. I had to learn the HARD way, but better late than never and never again.