There's a reason why of the women who your man cheats with are fat, ugly or stupid. They are easy women. Only desperate women go after someone elses man. **Yes -- she's got the fat, ugly, stupid, desperate & easy part covered like a pro!
One of the best ways to teach yourself to respond and react in a more positive fashion is by you being accountable for your responses and reactions. You cannot pass blame to another.
Congrats on getting your boyfriend to leave his loving & devoted wife for you. Your prize is a man who has no problem lying & cheating on the one person he vowed to love, honor, and cherish. Good luck with that BITCH!