If you're going to be weird, be confident about it - yes, fly that flag with pride! Not saying introverts are generally weird, but a lot of people seem to think we are because they don't understand :-)
I wonder how many times we forgive just because we don't want to lose someone. Even if they don't deserve forgiveness. When it's hard to forgive someone, just remember that God forgave you of all the dark sins you've committed!
“You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better.” ― Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life