People soften when you give them some Kindness. Sincere compliments always lead to a melting face, you can see the hardness disappear. Its sad because we all put up this guard. I always feel like I'm going to be attacked. Its just a defense mechanism that we've all become accustomed to. It's sad that the shitty toxic people of this world have managed to make the general population guarded. Love Love Loveeeeee then love some more. We arent all bitter fucking assholes and bitches. I promise.