you will never be able to make others happy until you yourself are happy. happiness comes from you and no one else. all you have in this life is yourself, so treat her with respect and someone will come along and do the same.
"Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don't need to escape from." Seth Godin [that's what Protandim is doing for me; well, LifeVantage as the business opportunity!