Softer, longer hair? Coconut oil will do wonders. 2 spoonfuls of coconut oil, heat up in a bowl for 30 seconds, massage in to scalp, then apply it into your hair, leave it on for about an hour and a half. Wash your hair by shampooing, then conditioning, then shampooing again. Notice you will have softer, healthier hair. Do this once a week for healthy long hair.