it's meaningless to say you're meant to be where you end up. It's arbitrarily renaming that 'where you're meant to be'. I don't believe anyone is meant to be anywhere. You are where you are, and end up where you end up.
"Don't fall in love with someone who says the right things. Fall in love with someone who does the right things. I hope. Actions speak louder than words. No longer in love. Time eventually shows ones real traits