I'm still a "forgiver", I'm just not codependent anymore. I've taken the time and energy to understand that there is a difference between forgiving, versus living in denial of the fact that some people are just broken or toxic.
"no one ever got tired of loving. they got tired of waiting, assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting" . tired of being on the back burner, while dating someone else; tired of being laughed at; tired of being gaslighted.